Friday, June 13, 2008

End of the adventure of a lifetime

Sorry I didn’t make a blog post last night while I was packing, kind of really wanted to but with packing, making sure I didn’t leave my most important possessions (dvd player), and having my final meal with my friends. I just couldn’t make it to writing about “the end”.
Mom called this morning at 9am and said, “Wake up you’re coming home today!” and “You start work on Monday!” I think you can assume my reaction to waking up with those two phrases thrown my way? Haha
Its not that I don’t want to come home, I just want to stay in China more than coming home. I have learned so much Chinese in the past 3 months than the 2 ½ years that I’ve spent at the U. But I would still stress to have a good basis of Chinese before going to China to study abroad otherwise you’re kind of caught in the middle of the city with your pants down, so-to-speak. From what I’ve seen through the people that start from scratch at BLCU, you tend to progress more if you already have some hold on Mandarin than if you don’t.
Ugh but wow, 3 months really flew by, even my mom said that, but I’m more than glad to stick around Beijing until time doesn’t seem to pass so quickly. I am glad though that I didn’t do everything humanly possible in Beijing. The places I went I know well, and there still is the Summer Palace, Silk road, and the many many massage parlors I haven’t visited (ones without happy endings).
Sanghoon and I were exchanging first day in Beijing stories, and its funny with the whole foresight thing that neither of us expected to meet so many great people and create such strong friendships in such a short period of time.
I laughed when I thought about walking into my dorm for the first time, taking a deep breath, and saying “Well this is my home for the next 3 months”
I can honestly say that I’ve grown mentally, physically, and spiritually due to all the new experiences I had in Beijing.
You know that really annoyingly catchy Olympics song “Beijing welcomes you”? Its true, Beijing truly is a welcoming city with exciting activities and completely astounding sights and people. I’m not just talking about the Chinese people but the international experiences through all the people from Belgium, Australia, South Africa, and the many MANY people from Seoul ahha…
Its just a pity that nobody back home will know the inside jokes we all made about our old teacher, or reminisce about the times I had with my class at the Great Wall, Car Show, or just hanging around eating cheap food.
I know I want to come back to China, especially back to Beijing and BLCU. It won’t be the same as this time but maybe it’ll be better. Its cool to know that now I’m welcome to visit so many countries around the world, I just need to pay for the airfare.
Where should my next adventure be? Chile? Germany? Alabama? Haha
I have to say though, right now I hate the Beijing Olympics because I’ve spent so much on getting presents back home to people. Total, I’ve probably spent a good $600 on presents to bring back home. I am so grateful that I only had to pay 200 kuai for one of my overweight bags, I kind of regret not trying to pack my extra fold out table and not buying another awesome dvd player, or maybe a psp? Of course money is always a restriction to having stuff no matter how cheap they come.
It was a challenge trying to write my most interesting experiences down on this blog and keeping up with it. It was pretty easy doing it at the beginning just because everything was so new and different but as time went on, things became more normal along with all the homework I had to do. I’ll do my Shanghai trip post sometime.
I’m planning to come back in 2 years after I graduate and before I jump into the full time mandatory work part of my life that is careening towards me. I feel bad for sort of deserting the people that are staying for another few months or the whole year. I would definitely want to live in the dorms again with a roommate because compared with the people who lived off campus, my friend making opportunities were increased ten-fold. Maybe I’m just that likeable? Anyways, Brent got into the architecture school that he applied to in Savanna, and Aaron is going home in July and will be sticking around for a bit. I’m planning on going to the NSHMBA Atlanta expo, so there could be a possible meeting of the minds which I look forward to. I’m also trying to convince Sanghoon to work on learning Spanish and getting sent to the states with some company so we can still hang out.
I really do need to start reviewing Chinese back at home so I don’t lose it all. But the only things I’d change is taking less hours of class so I can get a tutor and take some HSK prep classes. I’ll post up later on how terrible I did on it once the results are out.

So for now, I guess this is me signing off and closing my chapter in Beijing. Thanks for keeping up with me and reading about what I’ve been doing in China. For those who are thinking about going to BLCU or just studying in China, I’m always welcome for questions and I highly encourage the idea of going because it is completely well worth the trip. My first meal once I get home will be Taco Bell. Mmm nachos ^_^

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